What would you say is the key to enjoying anal as a woman? I LOVE anal, but can hardly ever find women willing to try it because they’re afraid they won’t enjoy it.

While I can’t speak for all women, I’d be happy to share what makes it enjoyable for me.
I was lucky enough to start my anal journey with a very patient, caring man. He took his time ensuring I was prepared and started small. He let me feel completely in control of the experience and I liked it because I never felt pressured but, at the same time, I liked pushing myself in order to do something that was enjoyable for him.
I think it’s important to let her know that she can stop if she doesn’t like it. Start with licking and fingers as long as she’s okay with it. You can eventually move to small plugs to use during sex.
Personally, I’d say the key is patience.