I just wanted to say I decided to stop using my clit because of your blog and you’re right: it’s. so. fucking. good. Ladies, if you haven’t tried it, you need to! It’s hard at first because it’s so ingrained for us to touch ourselves there, but really try and just play with your butt instead when you’re horny and make yourself get really turned on and keep playing with your ass until you can cum from it. It’s not as easy but it feels so. much. better. and I can’t stop now. I’m done with my clit.

Well said! It can be hard for some people to understand before they try it, and they might think it’s about the denial of pleasure or some sort of control scenario in a D/s relationship—and it can be, if that’s what you’re into, but it doesn’t have to be—fundamentally it’s about the fact that clitoral stimulation is just… inferior to anal, even if it is, as you say, often easier to orgasm that way. The after-effects from clitoral orgasms are hardly the worth the pleasure that can come from it, and the pleasure of anal orgasms can be more intense without the loss of arousal after, plus you can just keep going and having more and more of them.

Clitoral stimulation is a habit. Freeing yourself from it opens you up to far more variety of stimulation—anal, nipple, and more—and much deeper, more meaningful types of pleasure. It’s no surprise you’ve lost interest in your clit now that you have something so much better.

Thanks for sharing.